Your path to success begins with the person you see in the mirror every morning.
It's very easy not to take responsibility and blame others.
If you do that, you are not acknowledging reality.
I had a friend who was college educated, made good money, $100k and was 55 years old and had absolutely NO money set aside for retirement.
I asked why not?
She said NO ONE ever taught her.
She didn't take responsibility for her behavior.
Take responsibility for your life.